{"id":98505,"date":"2022-10-31T22:17:34","date_gmt":"2022-10-31T22:17:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/?p=98505"},"modified":"2022-10-31T22:17:34","modified_gmt":"2022-10-31T22:17:34","slug":"its-time-children-and-teachers-learn-about-the-power-of-emotional-intelligence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/en\/its-time-children-and-teachers-learn-about-the-power-of-emotional-intelligence\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s time children and teachers learn about the power of emotional intelligence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In brief:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The facts:<br \/>\nHuman emotions impact our physiology, state of conscience as well as others around us. Modern day education does not teach children about the importance of emotion and how to regulate and deal with it.<\/li>\n<li>Reflect on:<br \/>\nHow are children supposed to be psychologically &#8216;fit&#8217; as adults if they are not taught how to deal with the various emotions they experience throughout childhood? What exactly is education?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-98506\" src=\"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/1-102-300x159.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/1-102-300x159.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/1-102-1024x543.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/1-102-768x407.jpg 768w, https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/1-102.jpg 1210w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Today, many view it as an opportunity to learn, thrive, and excel in the world. Others see it as a necessary step toward obtaining a piece of paper that ensures one\u2019s entrance into the professional world. Regardless of your take on it, however, one aspect is certain: from a very early age we are forced into a system that demands our presence and attention for hours a day and for years of our life. Each child is required to learn an accepted version of reality in order to fit into the specific mould desired by the elite. Just like television, a large part of school is simply programming, and we don\u2019t really learn much about the world \u2013 or ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps this is why Mark Twain said, \u201c<em>I have never let me education interfere with my intelligence<\/em>,\u201d or why Einstein told the world to \u201c<em>never confuse education with intelligence<\/em>,\u201d and that \u201c<em>education is what remains after one has forgotten one has learned in school<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>School these days seems less about learning and more about rote memorization. Are we critically thinking enough, or questioning enough? Or are we simply being bred to become robots, all of us entering into the same human experience, \u201ceducating\u201d ourselves in order to further perpetuate a broken system? We learn concepts and ideas that fit within the current paradigm and structure of society, but not about how to care for ourselves and become well-adjusted adults. Are we really being educated? Or simply groomed to become \u2018good\u2019 consumers?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I don\u2019t want a nation of thinkers, I want a nation of workers<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 John D. Rockefeller.<\/p>\n<p>Another problem with the current education model, as pointed out by world renowned education and creativity expert Sir Ken Robinson, is that it was designed and conceived for a different age. Today, new information and discoveries are constantly emerging in all fields, questioning what we once thought we knew, and that includes how people learn. Unfortunately, unless you have an amazing teacher who is passionate about our world and new information, children suffer in this system.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, prior to the late 1800s, education was a private practice that took place in private institutions or through home schooling. That all changed in 1902 when John D. Rockefeller created the General Education Board in conjunction with Frederick T. Gates, a close friend and business and personal advisor. The General Education Board was responsible for funding the American public school system, and provided over 100 million dollars in 1902 while continuing their support beyond 1902. If we follow the money, it becomes clear the general education board was responsible for the creation of the American public school system. Does education not play a large role in manipulating the consciousness of human beings?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Knowledge has to come from somewhere, and that can\u2019t be a classroom.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Edward Snowden<\/p>\n<p><strong>Emotions in school<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>School is an experience primarily comprised of learning information \u2013 rarely questioning it, but rather taking it in as fact. While we learn about many subjects, very few of them have any real impact on our lives. There are absolutely no classes dealing with human emotions, for instance.<\/p>\n<p>According to sociologist Thomas Scheff, a big supporter of emotional education from the University of California, many Western societies simply view emotions as an indulgence or a distraction, and less important than other aspects. And he\u2019s right \u2013 we are often taught to bury our emotions so we can be more productive, and we are made to feel as though our emotions are not as relevant or important; they always seem to come secondary, if at all, especially within an educational setting. Scheff, among many others, believes that emotions provide valuable information, and yet we are taught not to listen to them. \u201c<em>Just as dangerous<\/em>,\u201d Scheff said, \u201c<em>is the practice of hiding one emotion behind another<\/em>.\u201d He has found that \u201c<em>men, in particular, tend to hide feelings of shame under anger, aggression and, far too often, violence<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many of the issues and problems that arise in our lives stem from the fact that we really have no idea how to process or address our emotions. As a result of this lack in our education, a child who has not paid any attention to their emotional body develops bad habits and behaviours to compensate, until they learn how to properly process their emotions, if they ever do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-98509\" src=\"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2-12-e1667254595846-300x198.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"561\" height=\"371\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2-12-e1667254595846-300x198.png 300w, https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2-12-e1667254595846-768x508.png 768w, https:\/\/yogaesoteric.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2-12-e1667254595846.png 864w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 561px) 100vw, 561px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>How do we go about doing this?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The good aspect about teaching emotions is, they can be implemented into any class and any grade. For example, if you were pursueing to teach emotions in a class with a number of kids who are about to graduate high school, a great starting point might be to illustrate just how much of an effect emotions can have, not just on a psychical level, where unresolved emotions lead to destructive action, but on a physical level as well.<\/p>\n<p>The Institute of Noetic Sciences is doing some great work in this area, creating more awareness about non-material science and how our thoughts\/emotions have an observable effect on physical material reality. The conscience-body connection is truly powerful, and we should be teaching people how to harness that power.<\/p>\n<p>An internationally recognized nonprofit research and education organization, the Institute of HeartMath dedicates itself to helping people reduce stress, self-regulate emotions, and build energy and resilience for healthy, happy lives. HeartMath tools, technology, and training teach people to rely on the intelligence of their hearts in concert with that of their consciences at home, school, work, and play. They\u2019ve discovered that emotional information is \u201c<em>actually coded and modulated<\/em>\u201d into the magnetic field that surrounds all living beings.<\/p>\n<p>As HeartMath Director of Research Dr. Rolin McCratey tells us, \u201c<em>By learning to shift our emotions, we are transforming the information coded into the magnetic fields that are radiated by the heart, and that can impact those around us. We are fundamentally and deeply connected with each other and the planet itself.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>All of these facts, published researched papers, and more can be accessed at <em>heartmath.org<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>One the most popular programs to begin teaching emotions was developed in 2005 by Marc Brackett, David Caruso, and Robin Stern of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. It\u2019s called RULER.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>The Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence uses the power of emotions to create a more effective and compassionate society. The Center conducts research and teaches people of all ages how to develop their emotional intelligence<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s currently being used in more than 1,000 schools in the U.S., implemented for grades k-8.<\/p>\n<p>The name, RULER, is an acronym for its five goals:<\/p>\n<p>-recognizing emotions in oneself and others;<\/p>\n<p>-understanding the causes and consequences of emotions;<\/p>\n<p>-labelling emotional experiences with an accurate and diverse vocabulary; and<\/p>\n<p>-expressing and regulating emotions in ways that promote growth.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What exactly are the kids taught? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>RULER teachers kids to to focus on the underlying theme of an emotion they are experiencing rather than wasting energy aiming to define it precisely. Grace Rubenstein from <em>Ted.Ideas<\/em> reports:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>When an emotion grips you<\/em>\u201d, explains Stern, \u201c<em>understanding its thematic contours can help \u201cname it to tame it.\u201d<\/em> <em>Even though anger is experienced differently by different people<\/em>\u201d, she explains, \u201c<em>the theme underlying anger is the same. It\u2019s injustice or unfairness<\/em>. <em>The theme that underlies disappointment is an unmet expectation. The theme that underlies frustration is feeling blocked on your way to a goal. Pinning down the theme can \u201chelp a person be seen and understood and met where she is<\/em>,\u201d says Stern.<\/p>\n<p>Just taking the time to contemplate an emotion when you feel it, and think about why it might be arising, is critical for emotional health. Emotions are something all of us experience, yet we have no guidelines or advice on what we\u2019re supposed to do with them.<\/p>\n<p>Rubenstein offers an example of how RULER functions in the classroom:<\/p>\n<p>RULER\u2019s lessons are woven into all classes and subjects. So, for example, if \u201c<em>elated\u2019 is the emotional vocabulary word under discussion, a teacher would ask students in an American history class to link \u201celated\u201d to the voyage of Lewis and Clark. Instruction reaches beyond the classroom, too; kids are prompted to talk with their parents or caregivers about when they last felt elated<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence has found RULER schools tend to see less-frequent bullying, lower anxiety and depression, more student leadership and higher grades. So why isn\u2019t emotional education the norm rather than the exception?<\/p>\n<p>Emotions are something all of us experience, all the time, every single day. They can be confusing, and hard to navigate, especially when they\u2019re destructive. By including emotional education into the school system, future generations would be far less depressed, angry, and confused. They would be better equipped to handle difficult situations in their lives, and find it much easier to express their feelings in a healthy, productive way.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s still a long way to go when it comes to understanding human emotions, and how to teach\/discuss them in the classroom at different grade levels, but RULER is an amazing step in the right direction and maybe we see more programs like this being developed in the future.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>yogaesoteric<br \/>\nOctober 31, 2022<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In brief: The facts: Human emotions impact our physiology, state of conscience as well as others around us. Modern day education does not teach children about the importance of emotion and how to regulate and deal with it. 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