Find your favorite position

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Indeed, couples that will experience basic lovemaking positions when they make love will be able to have completely remarkable experiences. But it is good to keep in mind that what works very well with a lover, does not necessarily go just as well with another. We are all different from the point of view of inner manifestations, of personalities, of erotic awakening and, not the least, of the degree of sexual openness. Therefore one cannot claim that a position that provided the maximum of pleasure in an amorous relationship can trigger the same effect in another relationship.

It is true, each one of us has their favorite lovemaking positions, but in order for the lovemaking not to become boring and monotonous, it is useful that we bring something new to it. And yet, it is good to aim first to obtain good results in one or two of the basic positions, before venturing for more athletic ones or for new variations of the basic positions. Most of the couples practice only two or three favorite postures during their entire marriage. But even the small variations of those postures, done in order to improve the lovemaking, can become boring at a certain moment.

It is important to keep a balance between this conservative stability and the „liberal” openness of trying something new. With care, love and patience in experiencing, many couples can quickly find practical ways of lovemaking in such a way that both lovers will be delighted and content.

27 June 2011

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